Nearly 1 in 10 women say that they find sex painful. Yet only 51% of women tell their male partners when intercourse hurts. …

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Instead of going on a sex strike, we need to use our bodies and our voices in ways that feel empowering, pleasurable and meaningful, whether that means choosing to have sex or choosing not to have sex.

In the bedroom, bigger is always better. At least, that’s what we hear in popular culture when it comes to penis size. Yet …

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Over the last 3 decades, I have spent a lot of time working with women who feel inhibited or ashamed in the bedroom. …

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If you follow my work on social media or you listen to my podcast The Language of Love, you know that I recently …

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Model Caprice Bourret recently landed herself in hot water when she encouraged women to have ‘maintenance sex’ with their husbands.  In an interview with …

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Biles changed the conversation about success in this country, showing that medals and wealth mean nothing if you don’t feel okay in your mind and your heart.

If you have consumed any media in the last few months, you’ve probably been made aware of the fact that actor Ben Affleck …

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Sex education teacher Justine Ang Fonte made national news this month when she was accused of leading Zoom sex-ed classes in which she …

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Do you remember the classic children’s book “We’re Going on a Bear Hunt”? I read that book countless times to all three of …

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Bill Cosby walked free this week, after serving just 3 years of his prison sentence for sexual assault. The comedian was released when …

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