What happens when the worst thing you can imagine… actually happens?

When Larry Carlat’s son, Rob, died by suicide, it shattered his world. Yet from that profound heartbreak emerged something unexpected: deep connection, renewed purpose, and a love more powerful than he ever imagined possible.

In this raw and deeply moving Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Larry Carlat—writer, father, and an unexpected guide through grief. His book, A Space in the Heart: A Survival Guide for Grieving Parents, weaves memoir with grounded wisdom, offering solace not just for bereaved parents, but for anyone navigating the loss of a loved one.

But Larry isn’t your typical grief expert. He didn’t seek out groups. Spirituality wasn’t his starting point. He wasn’t even sure he believed in an afterlife—until grief cracked him wide open, leading to an extraordinary journey.

Together, we explore:

• Losing his son Rob—and the love that outlived him

• How Larry went from a “lone wolf” to grief coach, group leader, and friend to fellow grievers

• The healing magic of community, even for guys who never thought they’d talk about their feelings

• Psychedelic journeys and psychic mediums—how Larry reconnected with Rob on the other side

• Why grief is one of the most potent paths to spiritual awakening

• What men need (but rarely ask for) when they’re in pain—and how Larry is creating safe spaces for them to cry, connect, and heal

• The truth about guilt, shame, and the choice to live again—even after unimaginable loss

Larry’s story is a vital reminder: we don’t have to “move on” to move forward. Joy and sorrow can coexist. If you’re grieving or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers a beacon of hope and understanding.

If this episode speaks to your heart, there’s more support waiting for you.

A Space in the Heart: A Survival Guide for Grieving Parents is a powerful read for anyone navigating the impossible.

For men navigating grief, check out Larry’s work at griefforguys.com or reach him at lcarlat@gmail.com.

Curious about connecting beyond loss? The Grief Healing Collective offers live sessions, resources, and community. Start with my Good Grief Course for practical tools.

If you’ve felt your loved one close or want to, this episode is for you.

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