Archives for: Love

Missing My Mama: The Invitation Within Our Grief

Author Vicki Harrison wisely described grief as an ocean, saying “It comes on waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim.” As many of you know, my mom passed away several years ago. The initial grief hit me like a tidal… Read more »

The Most Important New Year’s Resolution You Will Ever Make

The New Year is almost upon us, which means that many of you will be making resolutions to ‘improve’ yourselves. From losing weight to getting control of your finances to being a more present parent, New Year’s resolutions are an important tradition for many people. Sadly, breaking New Year’s resolutions tends to be a tradition… Read more »

How To Reclaim Your Inner Goddess

I deeply believe that every woman has a goddess inside of her. For those of you who don’t have a spiritual practice, the word ‘goddess’ might be off-putting. You might envision women in long, white robes dancing around a fire, but that’s not really what I mean. (Although, that can be fun too!) Instead, when… Read more »

An Open Letter to Men on How to Love a Woman

Dear Man, I know you love her and desperately want her to feel how much you love her.  You want connection as much as she does. And, most of all, you want to feel like you are doing a good job in the relationship and as a mate. Here’s my promise. If you put your… Read more »

Check Out My Aura!

Here’s an exercise you can try to sense your auras, and even notice if any part of your aura is not “closed.” The idea, according to energy healers, is that the aura should be whole and complete, surrounding your entire body.  However, sometimes a gap develops and that not only affects the efficiency with which… Read more »

Communicate in a Way that Lands

Often we fail to consider that our social, spiritual and intellectual interests are miles apart.  Our value systems and goals are contradictory, but we are in love. —Gary Chapman   As I shared with you in the last blog , the enneagram can be a wonderful way to connect with a sense of compassion and… Read more »

What is my Number?

The Enneagram is an ancient and inspiringly accurate model of nine interconnected personality types with straight lines connecting each one to two other types and two curved “wings” connecting them to two types along the circle (see Figure 1). I see the Enneagram as a tool for understanding ourselves and our partners in an entirely… Read more »

Are You At Home?

I want you to think of a time in your life when you felt absolute, complete bliss. Not content. Not alright. But in bliss, like all is right in the world. Maybe it was the moment the nurse handed your newborn child to you. Maybe it was when you kissed your partner in front of… Read more »

Your Love is No Accident!

In all the world, there is no heart for me like yours. In all the world, there is no love for you like mine. —Maya Angelou My work has convinced me of this truth: Your partner is your soul mate. We may have many soul mates in a lifetime, but there is no question in… Read more »

Quantum Love: THE Secret to Creating The Love Life You Desire

I am so thrilled to be releasing my newest book, Quantum Love, into the world this week! This book is the product of a four-year journey into a deep pool of wisdom composed of science, philosophy, physics and even metaphysics.  It has added an immensely powerful layer to my work with couples, not to mention… Read more »

The Art of Detachment: Learning to Love…and Let Go

Have you ever struggled in vain to try and ‘fix’ another person? Maybe your partner suffers from depression or you have a friend who suffers from addiction. You have probably made yourself crazy trying to help your loved one heal, maybe even at the risk of your own health and happiness. If this sounds familiar,… Read more »