Archives for: Sex

Can Watching Porn Ruin Your Marriage?

A recent study found that married people who watch pornography (on their own) are more likely to end up getting divorced. The study, which was led by the American Sociological Association, found that when married people begin to watch pornography, their risk of divorce jumps from 6 percent to 11 percent. The risk is much… Read more »

The Five Misconceptions that are Ruining Your Sex Life

Do you believe that mind-blowing sex is something that happens naturally or something that requires effort? If it is the former, your sex life might suffer as a result. In fact, new research shows that people who believe in ‘sexual destiny’ (the idea that passionate, fulfilling sex happens of its own accord) are more likely… Read more »

An Open Letter to Men on How to Love a Woman

Dear Man, I know you love her and desperately want her to feel how much you love her.  You want connection as much as she does. And, most of all, you want to feel like you are doing a good job in the relationship and as a mate. Here’s my promise. If you put your… Read more »

Can Great Sex Make You Believe in God?

Have you ever enjoyed sex that was so good it felt like a spiritual experience? Have you ever felt so connected and at one with your partner that your sexual activity actually felt…sacred, holy, and even transcendental? If you are like most people, the idea of sexuality and spirituality being connected is strange and even… Read more »

Time to Say YES TO NO!

Grammy winner Megan Trainor just released her new single “No.”  Not only is the upbeat, feisty song perfect for dancing (or just singing in the car with your kids), but it also has a really important message that I LOVE. The song is all about a strong woman telling a guy making unwanted advances to ‘get… Read more »

How to Talk to Your College Students about Drinking & Sexual Assault

Dear Readers, Millions of young people across the country are headed to their college campuses this week. As they eagerly settle into their dorms and start their new classes, many of them will be happily looking forward to their new-found freedom. However, this freedom can be both overwhelming and even dangerous, especially when drugs and… Read more »

50 Shades of Grey and the Truth about BDSM

Have you seen the Fifty Shades of Grey trailer yet? The recent release has millions of Christian Grey fans gushing about the steamy storyline and eagerly awaiting opening day. In case you are wondering what all the hubbub is about, Fifty Shades of Grey is a movie based on the first installment of a romantic… Read more »

Should You “Just Do It”?


Why do you have sex with your partner? Is it because you are in the mood? Because you want to feel closer to each other? Or, maybe, because you don’t want to say no and hurt your partner’s feelings? New research from the University of Toronto has delved into the different reasons that couples have… Read more »

One-Night Stands


What’s your take on one-night-stands? While casual sex is becoming a common and popular part of our culture, many people feel as though one-night-stands and random hookups can be unfairly geared towards a man’s pleasure. In fact, a recent survey led by the Kinsey Institute found that women are two times more likely to have… Read more »

Sex with your Ex


Have you ever had sex with your ex? A new study from the University of Arizona has found that sex with your ex-spouse might actually help you to heal after your divorce. The researchers surveyed over 130 people who recently split from their partners. Their findings, which were published in the Journal of Social and… Read more »